They are sipping from an eternal stream of compliments and solicitations. You're nothing but a drop in the bucket to her, and it's not personal. Except it kinda is, because right after receiving your message, she received another from Mr. Hunkalicious with 19-inch biceps and a six-figure salary.
When the Ashley Madison leak occurred, the results were as expected. It was a sausage fest. Don't let number of women you have to choose from fool you, because what you don't see are the massive number of men alongside of you eyeing the same prey.
She sucks at conversations probably because she never had to learn how to be interesting. Why change the script, when the eternal stream of compliments by definition, always persists? Why give C-Player a chance when she just received a message from A-Player? Her options outnumber yours by a factor of 4, at the very least.
Girls can get addicted too. They really get a thrill out of getting gawked at, and wined and dined for free without fear of futility. I joined OkCupid 3 years ago. I left after a year, took a break, came back a year later, then took another break for about a year.
Guess what? Many of the same faces around MY area were still there, active as can be and desperate for that SPECIAL MAN. What chances do YOU have of getting the bitch off of OkCupid? Slim to none. Let's be honest here. Online dating is a raw deal unless you're an A-Player.
They are getting a lot of attention from other guys, but you can break from the pack. Instead of the normal how are you, what do you do, what do you like, etc questions maybe ask the following:
Would you rather be attacked by a grizzly or a nest of hornets? If you could be one animal for the day what would it be? What superpower would you have? If you had to lose one of your 5 senses what would it be?
Well you get the idea... basically make her think and keep her intrigued, wanting more... Or maybe try trivia questions if you are looking for a smarty ;)
Perhaps they're just not interested in you. Just being polite. You know, girls usually get HEAPS of messages on dating sites, it can be overwhelming. Usually they'll engage in a proper conversation only if the guy truly stands out to them.
That is probably what you get from many girls. I have's watched as guys stretch for questions from me to keep the conversation going. That usually means I'm not interested. The other reason in my opinion is I want to change the subject but I don't know how to do so with this particular guy. If we were face-to-face I would call it tongue-tied but I guess it's called keyboard tied. lol
You're either not interested enough or you ran into one of the girls who considers her vagina a free card to lack all other positive traits. They're quite common and they do get away with it. They never get far in the relationship department of course.
Just be different. Tell a genuine joke, share some experience. Stand out a little somehow. It isn't even about your looks or picture. Most women on those sites will be happy talking to someone who feels like a normal and sensible human being.
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