Usually I'll start talking to them, and every single response they give is a dead end, and leads the conversation absolutely no where.
Most Helpful Girl
Are you trying to "chat" through messages? I find this to be a mistake. The "Hey what's up?" approach isn't great because
A) most people don't stay logged on to dating sites
B) most people want to check once a day and wrap things up
C) a lot of guys who get nasty start this way
Short paragraphs with a mixture of questions and statements is best.0
Most Helpful Guy
They are sipping from an eternal stream of compliments and solicitations. You're nothing but a drop in the bucket to her, and it's not personal. Except it kinda is, because right after receiving your message, she received another from Mr. Hunkalicious with 19-inch biceps and a six-figure salary.
When the Ashley Madison leak occurred, the results were as expected. It was a sausage fest. Don't let number of women you have to choose from fool you, because what you don't see are the massive number of men alongside of you eyeing the same prey.
She sucks at conversations probably because she never had to learn how to be interesting. Why change the script, when the eternal stream of compliments by definition, always persists? Why give C-Player a chance when she just received a message from A-Player? Her options outnumber yours by a factor of 4, at the very least.
Girls can get addicted too. They really get a thrill out of getting gawked at, and wined and dined for free without fear of futility. I joined OkCupid 3 years ago. I left after a year, took a break, came back a year later, then took another break for about a year.
Guess what? Many of the same faces around MY area were still there, active as can be and desperate for that SPECIAL MAN. What chances do YOU have of getting the bitch off of OkCupid? Slim to none. Let's be honest here. Online dating is a raw deal unless you're an A-Player.2