I've been speaking to a guy for quite some time and we finally went on our first date the other day. I told him that I am not looking for a relationship and he said he isn't as well but said that he would like a companion and that if a relationship happens, it happens. He kept saying that it was lovely to see me, very flirty, mirroring my body language, compliments, asking about me/my family, spoke of his and showing genuine interest.
He took me out for dinner and then he dropped me home and we relaxed by my pool for quite some time cuddling. Although he began to speak about how he wants to meet my parents, that he has a few weeks of break in the next few months and wants to know if I could join him on a holiday. He told me that he would like to do something for my birthday (which is soon). After he left, he messaged me saying that he really enjoyed himself and thanked me. He constantly invites me out for dinners after his work.
Most Helpful Guy
Sounds like he wants a relationship to me0
Most Helpful Girl
I think he definitely wants to be open to dating you and he just agreed with you (not looking for a relationship) but he wants to hopefully be the one to change your mind. I wouldn't be opposed to it, if you're feeling him too, sometimes when you're not looking for one its the perfect time.1