I like dating guys in their thirties, as personal preference. But it always makes me feel like they are going to be more of a prude, because I'm younger, so I'm a little hesitant. Also I feel like if they were married and now divorced, kinda like I have to compete to win them over. Should I feel like that?
I appreciate how you broke that down, because the same logic could be applied to the same men who want to date younger women - they could be the immature party type or they could be romantics who had their heart broke and they figure a woman younger has less baggage and would be able to "fall in love" with them - less competition less heart break on her part. Also, a man who was busy in his early life and is ready to start looking and who is young physically - and would like a woman that could keep up so to speak.
Depends on the girl. Hmm, I was sitting in the audience in a classical concert today, and there was a girl sat in front of me. And she would have been like 18-21. Couldn't help looking at her skin. She had 'child skin'. :P Gah, that sounds more Hannibal Lecterish than I'd hoped. I just meant women still look curiously young and cherubic at that age.
It really depends on the girl. Some girls in their 20s are very astute and stimulating, others still bounce around like they’re fresh out of high school. I’d be far more attracted to the former as the latter would get annoying or boring quite quickly.
The "problem" is that most guys still want someone they can be on a similar level of maturity and life-experience. Those who date young women usually just are in it for the sex, but not for a serious relationship.