My girlfriend told me that she feel like we aren't doing much on our date, all we do is make out, and she feels we haven't created a strong bond with each others.
She then sent me the following text:
"It's just for a while I've been thinking about us and I can't picture us in the future like I don't think that I should feel this way, so I'm just gunna have time to think for a while"
I reply with "just text me anytime you want about your decision and I want us to continue to be together but if you want to move on is ok"
What does this mean and what should I do? Just gave her time? Is she seeing another guy? Are we breaking up soon?
Most Helpful Girl
It doesn't sound like she's seeing anyone else. It sounds like she doesn't feel like you two have really connected other than making out.
A relationship needs more than making out to be sustainable. You need to know each other inside and out. Making out is nice, but there is so much more than that.
You both need to know what makes each other happy and sad, what you both are passionate about, and you need to share common goals for the future. She needs to feel like you can confide in her and she should be able to confide in you.1
Most Helpful Guy
I personally think you are indeed soon going to break up and her mind is fairly made up about it. Shame, you probably didn't actually do anything wrong. If she doesn't value the time you spend together, what can you do?2