I met a guy on match and we arranged to meet for coffee, he cancelled out first meet saying he was ill. He did rearrange and we met, we got on fine and he texted me straight after saying he had enjoyed our coffee etc.
We met again 2 days later and all in all met several times. He was super interested until the last meet.
He invited me over for a massage. Nothing happened apart from that and he didn't initiate anything else. As a older guy I thought he was being a gentleman.
He then disappears, no word nothing. Suddenly 3 wks later pops up on the dating site and says hello.
Do guys in their 50s really still play these games with women?
I don't feel I should text him to remind him I exsist.
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ILL could mean ill as well as someone else also wanted to meet him but her schedule was very limited (more than yours) so took that date spot from you.
Last meet massage was VERY forward
>I doubt he was used to gals coming on to him during/afterwards but don't rule that out, so since you didn't it might have been a deal breaker
> it's more likely that he wanted an intimate tactile tour of your body, even w/o sexual parts included... I'm sure this ranked you in his shopping tour but we'll not know how you did against the competition for awhile
> pops up again only when not consumed with work/life & the other gals/candidates; betting he did get a massage response and was busy with her until that went South, now you're back on his mind
> not games, think shopping and healthy guys pursue gals well past 65yo... of course you knew that?
> I would say hello + let's grab coffee or lunch ASAP... after all, I'm thinking free massages and maybe free meals/entertainment/dancing and networking his friends until I decide on one of them.. if I were a gal0