Disclaimer: I'm not insinuating EVERY girls profile is boring or complaining about lack of interests.
I've noticed when I look on a lot of dating profiles on OkCupid and POF, a lot of girls put no effort into their dating profiles which makes it absolutely difficult to break the ice.
It's like their interests will be insanely vague such as movies, food, working, exercising, traveling, music, netflix. Or they'll have nothing but the most cringeworthy "just ask". Funny thing is a lot of these girls that do have vague, boring as fuck profiles will have such vague info or no info at all yet say I won't respond to hey or hey what's up or boring questions.
It's like well then what the fuck are we supposed to ask? I mean not that I'm expecting some life story from the person, but for fuck's sake when a person just has movies and food listed as their interests, all we can really ask is what kinda movies do you like or what's your favorite food? Or if they don't have anything at all, all we can ask is what do you like to do for fun? Yet these girls complain about getting boring/bland messages. It's like come the fuck on.
That being said, it's one thing if a girl does list her interests and we just don't happen to share any. She's putting effort but at least it's onto the next one and finding someone else who does.
This whole thing, just makes online dating more of a pain in the ass and those people are doing themselves a disservice.
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In general it has been my experience girls have more thought through profile than men when it comes to dating. So I'd rather say that dating profiles in general are most of the time super boring.
Now as for girls on a dating site, they don't actually need to be interesting to be approached. They can skip hobbies, interest and potentially even pictures and basically write "Hi, I'm a grill" and expect to have their inbox flooded from time to time anyway.
With that said, reading a couple of hundred "do u wanna hav sex?" will make you seem like quite the prince charming when you actually introduce yourself as a human being to them. So don't think it is all bad for you.0
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