.. I need to find an older guy, but I would like to date guy who is like 25-35 because he'll want the same things as me a baby you know? so where do I find this older man
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I think there will be lots of older men that will want to date you, but I don't think its a good idea. just because they are older won't mean they will want the same thing. you could find a guy your own age who feels the same way you do, but DON'T, a baby is a life time comittment. only settle down with a baby when your absolutely sure you have found the right guy and fully prepared, after all the baby will always be his and yours. its best that it has both of you in its life. if you don't find a guy who will love you for who you are before hand. a baby won't make a difference and you may left as a single parent and SOME guys may not want to go out with you in the future based on you already having someone elses child.
Don't rush things, take your time, you will have a baby in the future, no need to rush. I think you think a little lowly of yourself. which is not good at all :(. stop putting yourself down, just know there are lots of guys who will be right for you but at the moment may not want a child. if you go and meet guys in a club to get pregnant you don't know what you might catch and its not the best way to make a baby. just please think about things a lot more carefully.
GOod Luck, God Bless4