Why didn't she chat back. (girls please help)!?
I know that this girl likes me but...
Here is the story
I have initiated about 4 chats with her last year, she replied to all of them. Then, I discontinued chat with her fora long time, but she initiated back to me last Sunday, I initiated it to her 3 days later and she replied. Last night, she was online, I initiated it with her and said "hi" it was about 12:30 in the morning.
I thought she was sleepy so I had my friend inbox her and she replied like 3 times" it wasn't anything" but I am curious why she did not reply to my chat.
Do you think
1. she doesn't like me anymore
2. she is playing hard to get
3. she is mad at me (because I am very popular in school and a lot of girls have been flirting with me lately)
4. she did not feel like chatting (12:30 because it was too late)!
Should I attempted to chat to her again or would this make me look desperate.
I think she is playing hard to get so should I wait and never initiate again?
Most Helpful Guy
4. she did not feel like chatting
Just because you say: "Whats up" or "Hi" or "Hi how are you" etc... Isn't enough reason for her to respond. Try sending her this one: "Hey jessica, what's your opinion on hanging out after school tomarrow? Talk with you soon" || Women like to answer only the reasonable text messages, if you're sending short hand comments to her and asking things that won't change the outcome of the night, chances are that she will be less willing to respond. || This means that you have to escalate things and get to the point.
Another perspective is that texting is over rated.
Personally, I hate wearing away my thumbs typing out a billion text messages, especially when I get more thrill from speaking to people in person or on the phone. Granted, it's not nearly as easy when you have time to analyze someone's response and then send a post-meditated response. When you are calling on the phone or speaking in person, you can quickly judge if you have their attention or not based on nonverbal language. Additionally, if you practice speaking with people alot, it can help you in all aspects of life on communicating effectively. Simple logic in lamens terms- The more you practice, the better you become (at what you've been practicing).
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