I'm 19 and I have social anxiety. I'm shy and I only had ONE girlfriend. I'm not really open and I don't get out that much. I feel so bad when couples are showing themselves how happy they are and I always want to feel that. I feel I have NO GAME to core a girl. (a. k. a. confidence) I play piano and I'm christian. I'm really passionate about my music and I want a girl fit all aspects of my life. But due to mt social anxiety I feel I won't meet her and feel I'll be alone forever while everyone get a chance at happiness. I can't keep a convo going for my life with a girl. I'm 5'6 which I know it's short for guys and girls dont like short guys. And I know girls hate non-confident/shy guys so should I just throw in the towel and give up at my chance of happiness and give up on getting a girlfriend because of my social anxiety?
Most Helpful Girl
Absolutely not, don't you dare doing such a thing! You just haven't met the right girl yet. You're 19, why don't you start traveling around the world? Maybe you'll find a sweet girl or just some new friends that can help you with your social anxiety. Ps. the last guy I had a crush on had social anxiety like you0
Most Helpful Guy
ur youngness means u havnt met enough people in a few years ul find out its bcus u didn't know enough people that was the only problem. ur SA will go away and ull get a girlfriend at the same time but its bcus the small number of people u know at ur age is all u see0