I am the same, but I think with me it goes even further. Maybe I've just never been mega attracted to any girl I've kissed, but I've never felt much from a kiss, it's always been just meh at best and even a bit gross and worst! And no, I'm not gay, I'm mega attracted to women, just kissing leaves me a bit cold.
Truth is, I only do it to please them and hopefully that doesn't make me too bad a kisser, because I try to pretend I'm into it for them! I'd rather she just stuck her hand down my pants and got on with it in all honesty! Sorry ladies :(
Sparks when you kiss? Real life is not a Disney movie or twilight or whatever is popular with the kids these days. It's a fantasy. And those people who claim they feel sparks are simply trying to describe a deep sensation of attraction, lust, desire and connection, or any other label you want to put on it.
A kiss is not something magical that makes fireworks go off and you all happy. A kiss is just a kiss. It's you, in your imagination that create all the other things.
No, did you really expect too? That kind of stuff only happens in movies, and as the people of old say "If you feel butterflies around a person, leave them, they are not for you" You should feel comfortable with him, but if thats not what you're asking, I have no Idea how to help you.
There's usually not really sparks. For me I start to like kissing more the more familiar I am with the guy/the more I get to know him the more attracted I get. I'm slow to fall in love, but I think if you enjoy spending time with him you should just play it by ear.
In my first kiss I didn't felt sparks or anything as well. I wasn't into the guy and I had a lot crossing my mind because I was nervous, so maybe that's why. The first time I experience that was years after when I was kissing a guy I really liked.
I kissed several people, never enjoying it, just thinking it was that I didn't like kissing.. and then I kissed someone I liked, and I actually felt "it", so yeah, I believe its a pretty good indicator..