I'm really skinny but don't work out much and can be kinda lazy sometimes. I do eat pretty healthy though. The guys I date tend to just let themselves get fat by eating all the junk food they want while I just watch in disgust as they get bigger and bigger. Is it just a coincidence that this has happened so many times or is there more to it?
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It's very common for both men and women to gain a little weight if they are comfortable in a relationship, but as others said, if the amount of weight gain is not gonna work for you, maybe look for guys that take better care of themselves. Alternatively, you could gently try to encourage they eat healthier (very easy way to do it is prepare meals for them, if you enjoy cooking), or even better, suggest that you guys go to a gym together sometimes, or go hiking or biking or some shit. That way you're still spending time together, it isn't like you're tryin to control them, and even though you might already be skinny and eat healthy, exercise is good for anyone =D0