Girls is it weird if the guy you're going on a date with hasn't had sex in more than 5 years? its personally been a very long time since I've had any sexual acitivity and its been a couple yeara since I've even made out with anyone. I've never been in a relationship before either so if a girl knew these things would she avoid me? i mean the thing is its not by choice, in fact its the exact opposite. i would have been having sex daily if it was possible. and also i dont inform women about any of these things but i think they might pick up on it. I went through the desperate stage after the first year but then i went through the depressed stage and finally got over it and im just in the disappointed and discontent stage which isn't as self defeating as the desperate or depressed stage. But i honestly feel like women can probably recognize that im undesirable somehow , do you think there's any truth? also I've used tinder and for some reason i always get mstches with the women who are just looking for friends on their bio. And 9/10 matches also hardly respond. Its getting ridiculous and i have to lie to my friends and family about being a bachelor so i dont have to admit this embarrasing little secret of mine. However my family has also made comments implying they think im gay lol. Basically im just looking for some input from women and maybe other guys about whether women have a sense that a guy is unsuccesful.
Is it weird or a red flag if a guy hasn't had sex in years?
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Its kinda a plus it wouldn't take long lol.0
She could be a little bit surprised but I don't think she would see it as a problem...0
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