So there's this guy I met New Year's Eve. We both go to different colleges & are 21. I don't have sex often, if ever, but I wanted to have fun that night and decided why not... Because his body is a 10/10, his face is too... Total mutual attraction. We had great sex (of course I have only had sex with one other guy so it's only a comparison to him) but honestly we are one when we have sex. We've had sex twice so far & are planning to again. He pleasures me and we are into the same sexual stuff. Just on POINT together. I have never felt as if I wanted a guy to melt into me as I have with him. When we are naked on each other I honestly don't want him to ever leave.
but the sex ends, and we lay there and talk for a bit... Or when we text or snapchat, we are off. He's super nice & a softy kind of guy. But he doesn't have much depth... I just don't sense that he has questioned or challenged a lot of things in life or thinks that deeply. I'm a huge introvert and spend way too much time reading and studying... And he doesn't I guess. It's like we are mismatched in discussion topics because I'll say something and it won't go anywhere but if I modify it to how I think he would like it; then he is more receptive. I don't know what to do because i crave him like no other guy before. But our interests are so different.
Most Helpful Guy
Just take it for what it is. I think a lot of people miss out on wonderful experiences in life because they over analyze things. So you're both 21? Don't look for long term right now, look for people and experiences that excite you and that you can learn from. And above all else, fucking live it up! You're only 21 and in college once.2
Most Helpful Girl
Keep him around as a fuck buddy and continue having deep conversations with your friends.
A relationship with him won't lead anywhere.0