What was is with the virgin fetishisation? Ego glorification, ie '*I*'m the one who got to take her virginity, I'm the fucking man'. Or princess pedestalling ie 'she's so pure and chaste, a princess is all mine!'. By all means, get off on this stuff, all of us have that inner creep, but don't fucking lie to both parties about the whole thing, at least be honest. Says a lot about the guy if he needs to feel powerful this way in my opinion. I'm 30 years old. I don't need to fuck women who are naive. I like having sex within open and honest relationships.
It's mainly an attraction to an girl virtue and personally, on an pure sexual level an slut can attract an guy no less or even more, but an first hand girl is usually much better for serious relationship.