I have approached all races of men and my ex boyfriend was white. Even I am mixed with white.
I figured hey if I want to talk to a guy I should try approaching them. I don't do it all the time but in my experience when I approached white guys and gotten to know them they seem arrogant as if they are too good for women.
Also, they seem like they are scared of non-white people. One time I was walking in line at a restaurant and this white guy flinched as if I was going to hurt him. I mean why would I want to date a guy who is scared of me?
And when I'm out in public the white people seem scared when there are other non whites around
I find white guys attractive and I am open to dating all races but
Some white guys have approached me as if they are doing me a favor
I have heard white guys say things like that about black women which is why I am hesitant. And the only time I hear about mixed girls from white guys is because according to white guys we look better because we are mixed and it seems like a sexual thing
Tbh, you sound like another of these black people on GAG who are angry that white people won't date you. Most people date within their race. This includes the vast majority of black women, so it's pretty lame of you to be whining that white guys seem "arrogant." Black women are more up themselves than anyone.
Don't worry about it. Some might view it as racist, but it's not. What it is is fear of the unknown. You don't know white folks as well as those of your kind, so that is the primary source of your apprehension. I say "go for it!" I knew one sister that I really really wanted to have her go for it with me. God, I miss her!
If you are treating them different because of the color of thier skin then yes, that is prejudice based on skin color (aka racism). However in all of your examples you are picking out behaviour of white men that are apparently doing the same thing to you. I would encourage you this. Realize that people are individuals, not members of a group. You'll find both assholes and good people of all colors. I myself am a white man and have dated a few black girls and they have all been fun (at least at first... obviously they ended) if you know what you want... go for it. You'll find it at some point.
You sound like you really have some issue with white guys, like you're angry with us or something. You may be killing your chances from the start by projecting a negative attitude.
The reality is that most white guys aren't going to want to date you. That may make them seemseem arrogant to you, but people are entitled to choice in who we date. Most girls reject most guys, so welcome to our world. Approaching others and starting a relationship isn't easy.