I really do like him, but I feel like it's pointless. How do I bring up my feelings and his possible asexuality (he never verbalized it to me). As for me, I'm open to dating him as sex isn't a huge factor in relationships for me.
I've been told he's asexual. Is there any chance for a relationship?
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You have been told that he is asexual? Well by whom? Do not just believe whatever other people tell you, those can be rumors also, you should be upfront and ask him in private, as to what the truth is and you should believe him only.
Well, if he is indeed asexual, and you are not then it will be a big problem especially for you and it may affect your relationship if you decide to have one with him. Yes, unless you are also asexual then it's another story.
Wait,, you said sex isn't a huge factor in relationships, right? I will agree with you on this one, I also believe the same. Having sex might be just one way of showing love but that is not the only way, so yes you're right, a relationship can be very successful even without sex involved in it.
Now, for example if you are a person who believes in having sex but this guy is asexual, since you said that, so he will never have sex in that case, so then it will be a big sacrifice on your part to let go of your desire for having sex, what do you think about that? did you think on those lines? I don't think one can just sacrifice their desire for sex just to be with that one person who is asexual?, I mean I have not read or heard of cases like that, so I guess must be rare
You need to ask yourself, are you also asexual like him? are are you not?, because if you are not then it will be a challenge for you, a big challenge.
However two asexuals can easily have a relationship together because both will never want sex in their lifetime. Hence you need to think on these lines and more importantly you must try to find out the truth as to what you have heard about him is true or not.
The best way is to ask him, talk to him about it. That will my honest suggestion0
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