I don't have a set number. I am in a relationship with a man 24 years older than me. He slept with a lot of women when he was in college. Then he settled down and married for 20 years, got divorced. In the 7 years he was divorced before he met me, he dated a bit. I am not at all concerned with his sexual past. I actually enjoy hearing about his experiences.
I chose 20- because I want to remain realistic and not set myself up for disappoint if lets say I did fall for someone who had hit that high of a mark because in his adolescent and younger ages he was kinda careless, it wouldn't necessarily reflect the person he is today, especially in the more recent years he was settled down and what not.
I prefer a low number, but I happened to fall in love with someone who slept around a lot when in high school \college... it only bothers me if i randomly think about it. we were friends for a long time before we started dating. It's unfair of me to hold all that against him, especially since I originally shot him down when he tried to date me!
A lot more needs to be said lol. How did you come up with that number? Why are you unsure of the category you belong in when it's your own poll? You're saying you fall into A, but perhaps B!
You meet a girl who you fall in love with & she's completely and utterly devoted to you. Then you find out she had a lot of sex in college, then what? Oh dear, time to move on to someone who you don't like as much all because you are in category A; Perhaps B.