Do you women see being persistent as a turnoff?
What Girls Said 12
my boyfriend was persistent, that's how he became my boyfriend. ☺️
persistence can be a good thing. but if she's at a point where she's basically ignoring you or avoiding you im not sure how well it'll work. before we got together my boyfriend tried to get me to go home w him from parties a lot and I would always say no. over time we had some nice conversations and eventually exchanged numbers and he finally asked me for coffee and I said sure. if the girl is totally uninterested though I don't think persistence will help you.0
So earlier this year, a guy that lives in my building and I end up making out one night. I didn't really like him but I liked the attention because my fiancé had dumped me in the middle of my family's Christmas party and I was just starting to get over it. I made it clear that I didn't actually like him, that I only like the attention, and that he should go after someone who would be into him because overall he's a good egg. However, this declaration was taken as a challenge instead of a rejection and he ended up chasing me constantly for the next month and a half. He even gave me a carton of almond milk (weird seduction technique brah). Eventually, when he realized that it wasn't working (and getting the RA involved), he backed the fuck off.1
Depends on if there is an instant attraction there.
My current boyfriend was super persistent, he literally said that I will be his girlfriend as if I had no choice. But I also thought he was so kind and handsome.
The intense stares across the room I would usually find creepy..
I still tried to resist a little, but just to amplify the attraction. It was still obvious we were going to be together.
"Not yet" or "take me out first" is the kind of thing I will say.
If I don't really find you attractive but I think you are a good person, then the words, "lets take this slow" will leave my mouth.
If I don't like you then a straight up "No thank you"0
Persistant in what way?0
Depends on how you approach being persistent.0
I am persistent0
Persistence without being pushy is desirable. Shows that you go after what you want and that's hot0
no but if its too much it gets annoying0
I can't speak for all women, but I do. It's like the telemarketer who calls you three times a week...0
It really depends. Being pushy is a turn off, however with certain instances having ambition and drive to keep going can be good.0
What Guys Said 10
All the girls I got with, I came towards them with the "you will be mine" attitude, and in some cases I had to be a bit more persistent, but you have to be able to read her feelings somewhat at least, cause if there's no attraction at all then you persistence is useless.0
If they like you, no because it shows that you want them and they like the attention.
If they don't like you, yes because it shows that you can't take a hint and you're labelled creepy.0
Depends, if you're hot to them or not.0
No means absolutely no sometimes and no matter how persistent you are, it's still a no.1
Who cares because they also like confidence so its a catch 22
But generalizations are just that0
Depends on how persistent. If you're overly persistent, it might come off as desperate.0
Step 1: Be attractive
Step 2: Don't be unattractive0
Yeah i guess.0
if you overpursuit they dump your beta ass. guaranteed. she should be pursuing YOU0
Well if I don't like her and she keeps stalking me then yes a major turrn off.0