Going on our first official date on Valentine's days. Good or bad idea?

We seen each other two times (first going to a bar, second time ate at a japanese restaurant with friends the next day). We stay an hour and a half away from each other. We've been talking since last may. I asked her to be my valentines. She said yes. We agree that we should see how we vibe/connect face to face to see if should take the next step or be just friends. Is this a good idea or bad idea going on our first one on one date on valentines day?

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Thank you guys (and girl) for your advice at the moment

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Most Helpful Girl

  • my biggest advice is not to let the occasion pressure u. it is nice that ur going out together but u don't necessarily HAVE to take it that next step. u can tell her ur interested in her and look forward to seeing where it will take u, but to become some kind of official, while a nice gesture, is one that u really need to think about. remember you've only seen each other twice.

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    • I mean to see if we like each more friends or just friends

    • i understand. as i said though, using valentines day to bring this up might be pressuring her a little into making a decision too quickly as well. remember that sometimes we're very soft and don't want to hurt peoples feelings, especially on a day like that. while it's a nice thought, i think it's best to save it for a day where u both don't have that pressure of it being 'the day of love' u know?

      thanks for MH =]

    • No problem. I'm trying not to put pressure on her on that day.

What Girls Said 4

  • Only if you're okay with being the biggest cliché in the universe. Anyway. Have a good time.

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    • I'm sorry. What's the cliché?

    • Valentines Day is a cliché and a half.

    • 👌 thanks for answering

  • I'd advise against it. Valentines puts far too much pressure on you both. It creates expectations you don't need on a first date and sets the tone before you've even met up. Pick a different day and take her somewhere fun where you can both enjoy yourselves and let your guard down so you can get to know each other first.

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  • Can you go out before Valentine's Day? see if you gel, then do a friendship/ light romantic thing on Valentine's Day? Just a suggestion...

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  • man valentine is just a made up thing to get money from the masses.
    whether it is Easter, valentine, Halloween who cares?
    you feel like asking her out on a real date, you want to take a step forward, then go for it

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What Guys Said 4

  • First date on Valentine's Day has a higher possibility of ending with a romp between the sheets.

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  • I think it's great

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  • " We agree that we should see how we vibe/connect face to face"

    based on your agreement i'd make sense to remove outside factors and influence.

    valentines day date comes w/ a little added pressure/expectations... etc.. it's why you're asking the question.

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  • You both agreed to this, hence it must be a good sign.

    Never mind the hub-ub surrounding Valentine's Day, enjoy each other's company and have fun!

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