We seen each other two times (first going to a bar, second time ate at a japanese restaurant with friends the next day). We stay an hour and a half away from each other. We've been talking since last may. I asked her to be my valentines. She said yes. We agree that we should see how we vibe/connect face to face to see if should take the next step or be just friends. Is this a good idea or bad idea going on our first one on one date on valentines day?
Thank you guys (and girl) for your advice at the moment
my biggest advice is not to let the occasion pressure u. it is nice that ur going out together but u don't necessarily HAVE to take it that next step. u can tell her ur interested in her and look forward to seeing where it will take u, but to become some kind of official, while a nice gesture, is one that u really need to think about. remember you've only seen each other twice.
I'd advise against it. Valentines puts far too much pressure on you both. It creates expectations you don't need on a first date and sets the tone before you've even met up. Pick a different day and take her somewhere fun where you can both enjoy yourselves and let your guard down so you can get to know each other first.
man valentine is just a made up thing to get money from the masses. whether it is Easter, valentine, Halloween who cares? you feel like asking her out on a real date, you want to take a step forward, then go for it