I've started a new relationship with a girl and things are awesome. We're super compatible, have great, intimate times together and I don't want to ruin anything.
I do however have a kind of weird desire where I want to be hit in between the legs by her. For some reason the idea of being vulnerable and all of that is a big draw for me.
My question is, would you hit a guy in the groin whom you were dating if he wanted it? And if so, what would be a good, respectful for the guy to bring it up so you aren't weirded out?
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No, I wouldn't. I wouldn't necessarily find it weird, but it's not something that I'm really comfortable with doing. I don't really like hurting him and that could be really dangerous so it's a bad idea.
I'm not sure of the best way to do it but I'd be pleased with my guy for bringing something up sensibly and asking whether we could do it, explaining why he wanted to and how he'd make it safe, and making sure he pointed out that he wouldn't be mad or push me to do it if I wasn't comfortable.
That'd be really mature about the situation and it'd make me feel really happy with him.0