I've met a guy and he's literally the most attractive guy I've ever dated. I know you don't usually call a guy beautiful but he literally is lol. He's tall, dark, handsome... Whole package basically!
Despite this, the reason I like him is because he's a lovely person, he makes me laugh, he's interesting- we just really get on. My attraction to him isn't physical as much, like usually I'm attracted to average geeky guys most people wouldn't look at. I fancy this new guy but im
not infatuated like I usually am with the guys I've met lol which is definitely healthier.
Is this enough though? Will a romantic spark grow? I can't tell whether my feelings are purely platonic.
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I wouldn't say you aren't attracted to him physically as much - historically you weren't but who knows, this guy might have changed the way you look at guys you like! ;)
Does attraction grow? I think rather than it growing, you get more accustomed and familiar. Things may no longer seem as intense as they were before, but they become comfortable and familiar. More.. normal.
Pure but intense platonic feelings develop into romantic feelings if both parties are interested in becoming a couple. I don't think a relationship can exist unless there is friendship, interest, and a decision to be together.1