I've been friends with this guy for 2 years and at first we were good good friends until one day he came onto me. He started talking about "our future" and how many kids we will have together. It was as if we were in a relationship without actually having the title. Now he is more pushing to be friends. I told him plenty of times that my feelings for him has turned into love and I can't be friends with him if it's not going to lead into a relationship. He refuses to let me go. He doesn't talk to any other girl even though I advise him to so he can see that we are soul mates. I am wondering what's holding him back from either pursing me or just leaving me alone?
Most Helpful Guy
He's just not ready💁🏻0
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It sounds like he needs to make a decision. He knows how you feel, but he won't step up to the plate and decide what he wants. Like he wants to keep you all to himself but he doesn't want commitment anymore either... what suddenly changed his mind in the first place? You deserve a definite answer and if he's not willing to give you one, as hard as I know it'll probably be for you, you need to let him go and move on. I mean who knows, maybe one day he'll realize he was stupid for letting you go and he will make a commitment but. Until then you deserve someone who actually knows what they want. Good luck.0