My friend dated a guy two times, and feels that the guy is right for her, and he really is! The guy's beliefs fit hers, he is really caring, and whenever they are together, they bring out the best in each other.
But The one issue which my friend is really judgmental and critical about, is that he is really lacking in great looks, and sex appeal, and he is a little bit heavy in structure.
What should she do? The guy is like Reallyy into her, but she is being neutral with the guy in the meantime. Please any good advice.
Most Helpful Guy
Awkward. If your girlfriend is attractive and she stays with this guy, she might start to fantasize about really handsome men, and might even get tempted to sleep with one if one makes a move, and that's all wrong.
Looks do fade with time. It sounds like this guy has a lot of the endearing qualities for a very long-term relationship, but none of the qualities desired in the shorter term.
If she passes him by, she might find a great-looking man who has none of those endearing qualities, has some wild sex with him, and then is left alone.
I don't know what to suggest except to suggest that people who develop relationships with others they don't find very attractive will usually end up making one or the other miserable at some point.0
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Most Helpful Girl
If she's romantically attracted to him then of course she should go for it. But if she doesn't feel any attraction physically and doesn't feel that spark then it's probably not the right guy for her.0