He was honest in telling me that this other girl sent him a photo of her ass. She was "showing him her new tattoo". His words back to her were 'you shouldn't do that because my girlfriend would lynch me for this' or words to that effect anyway.
He was completely honest and upfront and brought this up to me, so I appreciated that he did. But I still wondered, how on earth did they get onto that conversation?
Then, a few months later a girl he used to work with was texting him to try and hook up with him after splitting with her ex. He obviously said no, but again, I wondered... how did they get onto that subject?
he's always secretive with his phone when he's around me, and it makes
me suspicious. He doesn't want me touching it and always goes 'hey' if I do. He takes it everywhere with him, toilet and all.
I guess these small things grind my gears. But when I check my Facebook and still see he's been online at like, 3am after saying goodnight, I begin to wonder a little.
Am I overreacting?
- Be wary of himVote A
- Show the guy some creditVote B
- You're overreactingVote C
- His behaviour seems slightly suspiciousVote D
Most Helpful Guy
If he is indeed being honest with you and bringing this stuff to you. It would seem to me that you have little to worry about. It just means thirsty bitches want your man and he is not interested in them. Also, not wanting someone to go through your phone is not suspicious behaviour, i feel demanding the right to go through some one elses phone is an invasion of privacy.2
Most Helpful Girl
If it was just one ass pic, it could've been a misunderstanding. It would be more important how he reacted upon receiving it, like if he jacked off to it, or asked her to send more. Which it doesn't sound like he did.
However, it doesn't bode well into making his case look any better that he's now dealing with a girl who conveniently wanted to hook up with him post-breakup (I've yet to hear of anyone doing that), then hiding his phone to add to the suspicion.
It might be time for an ultimatum or sound clear boundaries to be set. That way, if he breaks them when you're both aware of the rules, it'll be easier to know how to react on your part. Meaning you saying you're hurt by all these things that happened and would like if he stopped exchanging/receiving photos of any sort from random girls. Regardless of how many tattoos they got or where they were placed.1