My friend's ex boyfriend keeps asking her out and flirting with her even though she acts cold and distant. He's a good looking guy and there are many girls, who want him, but he still tries to get her. He doesn't mention a relationship or being back together or anything and he was the one who ended the relationship, but always tries to make out and wants to have sex with her even though she rejects him. So my question is... why would a guy try so hard having sex with his ex girlfriend, who has moved on ( she's still single, though ), when he could be having it with lots of other girls?
You won't understand. There might be better girls around him, more successful, better personalities, more beautiful that might even like him, but once you love someone it doesn't matter how many fishes are in the pond, you'd only want that one person at any cost.
It's easier to get with someone you were with previously, than to go out and chase others. You know this person. You know what they like. You know that they are clean. All of those things put your mind at ease.
Because it's more comfortable withs someone who you have history with sometimes, you know what they like, and if the sex was good it makes the want even stronger. He may just want sex with her because the chemistry is on fire.
He knows what sex with her is like. They had the time to get to know each other on that level. Even though, they aren't together anymore, he knows that sex with her will probably be way better than with a new woman.
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