I went on four dates with this very hot white guy. Things went a bit far after the 2nd date and we ended up having amazing sex on that and the next 2 dates. I really liked him a lot. I decided to hang out with an old boyfriend for dinner one night after the hot white guy said he couldn't go out with me that night due to a previous engagement with some friends who wanted to go out for a beer. My old boyfriend also happens to be a tall black man and we're still very close friends. Coincidentally the hot white guy and all his friends just happened to be drinking beers at the same place my X and I decided to dine and he came up to me as I entered the establishment to talk. As my friend entered the place, he joined me and the hot white guy which perplexed the new guy. I introduced the two and jokingly introduced them as Xxx my new lover and Yyy my old lover. New lover looked shocked even though I told him Xxx and I were just friends and hang out sometimes then gave him a kiss right in front of my friendly date then told him to have fun and we'd talk later. We were not officially dating or even talking about a serious relationship, just having fun getting to know each other. I'm no longer sleeping with the old boyfriend but just hang out with him and some other friends sporadically. The hot white guy has not called me in two weeks. I make it a habit of not calling men for dates so I've just wondered why he's no longer calling. Is he a racist? Should I just say good riddance and move on?
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I wouldn't jump to the conclusion of being a racist. That thought is based on what?
And why don't you text or call him? You know girls can make moves to you know and he probably feels, idiotic as it may be, that you owe him one. You did all the right things! You introduced him properly, you kiss him and you sleep with your ex. Not sure what is problem is, he should be happy to have an honest girlfriend. Your whatever you call it.
I'd say make a move and talk to him and see what haopens. You have nothing to apologize for though if he is mad, based on what I've read.0