About a month ago this guy that I like and have known for a while texted me after we had seen each other at a holiday event. When we finished the conversation I said hope to talk to you soon, and he said he hoped it would be sooner rather than later. So I texted him the next day and we talked for a few hours. Everything seemed to be going swimmingly but then he didn't text me anymore after that. Not wanting to seem desperate, I didn't text him either.
A couple days ago I got my nerve up to text him and say hi. He responded and we ended up texting for 12 hours! And not just one word answers but he sent like 6 texts at a time, asked questions, etc. He obviously wanted to talk.
now here it is 2 days later and I haven't heard from him. When, if ever, is it ok to text again? I know normally girls shouldn't text guys but this is kind of a special case and I think he's a little insecure about the whole thing.
Most Helpful Guy
Lol games like that make me sick. Just text when you feel like talking to him and wait for reply. Texting first doesn't make you look "desperate" . However if you never initiate, the guy might think you're uninterested.
From your info, I think you two are going great, while ending convoy say something like "let's talk tomorrow" and then text tomorrow, so it doesn't look weird at all. Soon it will be your daily chore ~…~2
Most Helpful Girl
Many Toms are Not the Best from the Rest Texters so sometimes without standing on Ceremonies... Is it ok to text again?
I know and realize that a person Does Get discouraged with always having to be the One to Push a button on her own end. However, maybe if you Don't bother for awhile, he may wonder Where you went and he just Might take the Initiative.
Let it go for now, see what happens. No, Don't send anything, Test the time This... Time. That way you can see if he Really does want to keep the'12 hours' Going and Flowing.
Good luck. xx0