I think I expect too much maturity-wise. Could that be? What I want is to get her attention for being a mature guy. It's not that I am being an overly good guy or having no demands. I am not so much of a party or extrovert person. I prefer focusing on a better study/life future. But that's not all my life. I don't talk so much perhaps. I rather mind my own business than others'.
In the same time I am lonely for being alone. I've tried acting differently but then that would not
be me anymore. So after all I can't get anyone's attention somehow. I feel too cheap, not worth of dating, boring or something. I don't know. I'm sure that I am not alone with this problem.
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girls may think you're boring. be spontaneous within your limits.
also maybe your introverted side is giving out bad vibes even if you arnt trying to.
i asctually once asked a girl while on a date that i saw all the time what she thought of me before i asked her out. she said i was cute but always looked really busy and for that reason unapproachable0