Seems like im at a disadvantage im short ugly and still a virgin
Most Helpful Girl
I don't find you ugly at all.
"Ugly" is all perception based.
These people have a standard they are setting for you, and anyone who fails to meet it is ugly. Who says you have to live up to that standard? Instead set one for your own.
Look the mirror and do not critique your looks so harshly.
Instead say out loud the things you love about yourself?
Is it eyes?
Is it your skin?
Is it the way you play an instrument?
Is it your smarts?
Every day look the mirror and remind yourself of at least (2) things you love about you.
I know dating can be hard when you constantly feel rejected but before you can have any successful relationship, you have to come to a place where you accept yourself. If you do not, your insecurity will become a huge issue in any relationship you pursue.
I advise you to work on yourself first before you even think about getting involved with a girl.
How can you give your WHOLE in any relationship if you enter into it as a person that is broken?
You'll get through this.
Trust me you will not be a virgin for your entire life.
One day at a time...2
Most Helpful Guy
You're just approaching the wrong girls. Some of them are total bitches that need a slap. They're actually doing you a favour by chasing you though. Never ever doubt yourself, it's corrosive. Find something in the mirror you like. After that find 2 things, 5 things and drum the message home you've got good shit to offer. I've known guys who couldnt pull a fukin shopping cart when they were younger ended up nailing everything in their 30s. There's no good and bad hand in life. Just the wrong way of looking at it1