Who is a bit unstable (not emotionally) but that she doesn't really have a clear idea of which way she want to go yet, career wise, she changes directions a lot, because she doesn't know who she is and is probably depressed. Do you find that annoying? or would you rather have a girl who is stanle and knows what she wants. This guy whom I liked dumped me for another girl because I was depressed, he said I was lifeless and not good in bed (im a virgin) at 23. I feel so bad because worst thing of all... he chose an ugly girl! I DONT CARE what anyone says , the girl is not good looking, why?
Most Helpful Guy
His choosing an “ugly girl” over you is a useless fact. People often choose someone they feel compatible with versus how good someone looks. It sounds like you really need to seek professional help for your depression. Bouncing from job to job or guy to guy (I know you didn’t do that but some do) is really just you searching for happiness from external sources. Happiness doesn’t work that way. Moving to a new job or place will only make me feel better for a short time, then my old habits and depression will creep in and I am no better off than I was before. Consider yourself lucky that you know you have depression and that this guy pointed out how it is impacting your life. Get help, heal, get happy with you.0
Most Helpful Girl
First off I will say: looks aren't everything. So what if she's ugly to you? He obviously likes her.
Second: if you're unstable and unsure where to go in life then you should focus on figuring that out instead of worrying about relationships.0