People often times put up a facade OR, in other words, they use their best foot forward and mask their "true" self to become involved. What are YOUR tools for getting to TRULY know someone?
Most Helpful Guy
They can't hide who they are forever1
Most Helpful Girl
I was friends with my boyfriend for four years before we dated. And those years were spent from age 12-16 for him. So if you want to see someone at their worst, demand maturity from an angsty hotheaded pubescent boy lol
I knew who he was at his worst long before we started dating. But I also knew who he was at his best and who he was at his middle ground. The four years prior to us dating were spent asking each other literally ever question under the moon. From, "What's you're third favorite tree?" to "If we were married and had children, what role would you want your spouse to play in the marriage/child rearing?"