Honestly? I would share my opinion but everyone would freak out on me. Actually, I'll share anyway and hopefully people won't judge me for being honest. Again, this is my own personal thoughts as a white male living in the northeast united states. I think it's as simple as... years or racism has led to black women not being as educated as other races (on average). I live close to a few cities of poverty, where the majority of the people are uneducated no matter what race... but the majority of the time you will hear the black women being loud and obnoxious as if they have nothing to hide or to be ashamed of. Usually speaking about things that have them worked up. Now I'm not going to get into the racist views, as I'm not a racist... I'm just talking about what I've noticed in person, on the news, etc. That's not saying Ibe never heard uneducated white women act this way. Because I definitely have. But being 100% honest from what I MYSELF have experienced... this is what I've noticed my entire life. I think some black women are beautiful, I think some white women are discusting... and I'm not JUST talking about physical characeristics. AGAIN... I'm trying to be hinest without pissing anyone off... but I think it all stems back to black women being suppressed, and the effects are still being carried on to new generations.
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There not though... Most people don't even know if black women are into them because they think they only want black men. Ultimately it doesn't even matter if you just want to meet that one special person. You don't want to be desired by everyone... Just that one great guy.
It's just that men do not prefer black women. The same way Indian men are the least desired by women all over the world. So, it looks like being born as a black woman or an Indian man is kind of unfortunate in the dating scene. Indian men probably have it worse, since we are not even preferred by Indian women if they have other options.
1. Black girls are one of the least feminine among the ethnicities. Rarely there are blacks girls where you can say she looks delicate, etc. Yes, you can say "dat ass", but I hope you get what I mean.
2. There are quite a lot of blacks doing a great disservice to all blacks by being obnoxious, toxic, overly bitchy and some other quite negative traits. Unfortunately those make the reputation for all blacks pretty bad.
I don't know, but according to a black girl in here, most black women only wanna date black men, so if she's right, that must be why, I mean, if they don't wanna date you, you will automatically won't even think of them as possible mates, you know?
I am white and have dated a few black women. The only ones I even liked were from East Africa, highly educated, slim, and very pretty. I just can't get past the first date with an American black woman.
It is not one thing. First, I find very few black women physically attractive. That cuts out 95% right there. If there is any hint of ghetto, we are done. If I hear "aks", we are done. If she hangs out with ghetto type people, we are done.
Black women tend to either not take care of themselves or they do take care of themselves but their style isn't appealing. Most black women I know are overweight and thats just a fact that cannot be ignored. Then there's the fact that urban 'ghetto' culture is loud, obnoxious and antagonistic in its nature. Frankly, 90% of African American women that I know I'd disqualify off the bat for one of those reasons, before we even factor anything else in. Black women who grew up in predominantly white neighborhoods or Africa tend to not be nearly as undateable.
Probably has to do with their features. And aesthetically lighter colours are more vibrant and uplifting.
You wouldn't paint a room a very dark colour but a virbant green is very cheerful. Its just a visual mood thing implanted im humans. Whether this is natrual or adopted over years through enviromental surroundings, I wouldn't know
They aren't I'm mixed and kinda look like Jon b and all I date is black girls cuz they in da stand my struggle and won't run from my temper lol but some black girls don't date outside their race and can be hard to get along with or unfaithful like a mf but I think the solution to this is for black women to start dating outside of their race seriously it's 2016 not 1865 lol ya dig
Keep being you girl!!! I'm white, yet my mothers mom is black/ Puerto Rican. Intimidate a lot of men, just because I dont take no shit from them and say it like it is. I don't think it has todo with color, maybe attitude or independence. Who knows, I'm not even really sure we aren't from the same planet. We just fancy them for certain things. 😉