I'm actually quite confident in myself, and my family and friends say I'm really pretty (of course I had my flaws, everyone does, but in general)... But I can't imagine anyone crushing on me, or loving me. I can't imagine someone waking up and immediately being happy at the thought of me, or having me on their mind while in bed at night. I can't imagine anyone telling their friends about me and calling me "beautiful" or "just amazing", or anything.
I'm a 13 year old girl, have never dated, haven't even had a first kiss... I'm sure I'm heterosexual, too. But believe me, though... I have my fantasies. I was just wondering why I can't imagine this. Anyone know why, or feel the same way, so that I know I'm not alone?
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I used to think that way. But I think you're still really young and you're still discovering this whole "love thing". You think that way now but someone out there will come up to you and ask you for your number or tell you that they think your pretty. You'll start getting used to the idea that people ARE attracted to you and then it'll sink in. Once you have your first kiss, and your first date you'll start to understand what feeling "in love" is like and hopefully you'll get some guy that will treat you with respect and want to go out with you.1