Hi everyone , I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic. Anyway I've never had a girlfriend I come from Melbourne Aus and find the girls here really difficult to talk to, I'm very relaxed and down to earth. All my mates who have been overseas reckon the girls come up to you and talk , unless you're in a big city in a western country where girls are precived to be more self entitled. Anyway what do you find attractive in a guy? I have broad shoulders broad chest muscular , I have bright blue eyes big check bones good jawline , but I have red hair which always seems to be the biggest turn of. I have a good job , completed a degree in economics, very down to earth and can talk to most people , yet when I ask a girl out I've just been always told no , go away, ewwww red head yuck , no sorry. I've just got to the point of giving up because I just can't be bothered anymore I'm sick of it. Anyway here's photos of myself.
So so what can I do to improve my postion with girls?
Should I dye my hair , which everyone always gives me crap for?
Or am I just ugly and can't do anything about that? And just settle for less? I don't know anymore it's just depressing:(
Most Helpful Girl
Firstly. You aren't ugly. At least not to me. Don't judge a book by it's cover, I know, but you are buff, it looks like you have a lot of muscles and some girls (me included) think those guys wants a fling, they're not serious. But, don't settle for less and don't settle for more. If you meet a girl chat to her and see where it goes. I don't see anything wrong with red hair but if it's that much of a bother to you you'd look great with dark hair. I think you look good and i recommend you stay the way you are. Don't give up1