He broke up with me in Dec after 6 months of being together. Since then he has never stopped contacting me, he admit he has commitment issue and bought a self help book. We are dating again now.
He has only read one chapter so far and it seems to be helping him realize he is emotionally unstable and he is not ready to be in relationship. He also said he only became independent from his mom a few years ago, he thinks he needs more time to be committed.
He told me he needs to be honest with me as he is not sure how long would that take him to be ready to be in a relationship. He said I can date other guys. I asked is that because he wants to date other girls. He said he wants me to be open minded, and that if someone comes along he will be open to dates, he will tell them he is not looking for relationship he will be only up for a few dates. Then he added if he is ready to be committed to anyone it will be me and not anyone else.
Since the break up he still takes me to his sports, and takes me out to dinner date. We do PDA, hugs, kisses but we are not getting intimate.
Base on our old relationship I know he is insecure and he even said to me he never date more than one person at once, if the girl feels he is not enough and has to date someone else he will just move on from her.
I understand he is not ready to be with me or anyone as long as he reamins a commitment phobe. Should I cut him out of my life? or just go do my own fling while remain connected wtih him?
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He is Now Being More of an Honest John in Openly Admitting that even with the Book... He wants You to take a Good Look, he Cannot Commit.
However, he is Still Showing and Glowing with You right now as Exclusive and even without Official, he is Making you a Part of his Heart.
He has told you straight out how it is now, so with this being said, focus on You and don't say anything of what you may do. He has made his own point by Pin pointing how it is so how it sit fair for you to just sit around with a "Maybe' or "No" in Having a Real Relationship again?
Tell hi, to get this Ball and Al Going and Flowing, that you Don't want to Know Anything... About any Fling.
Tell him too the book opens and closes both ways. This may make him Maybe... Read on.
Good luck. xx1
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