Yes, those add up to more than 100, because they're not mutually exclusive. Imagine a Venn diagram, with one circle for looks and the other for personality. Then you've got 40% in each of the outer two regions, and 20% in the intersection. NOW you add up to 100%. lol i'm a nerd
But, you see the point, right? The point is that there's a non-zero intersection, because these traits can play off each other. A boy's personality and comportment CAN make him more attractive -- yes, these things can even make him seem more PHYSICALLY attractive to us. That's a thing. A thing that can happen.
And, I mean, I'm, like, SUPER shallow and into hot bodies. For most girls it's probably more like 80/80, with 60% in the intersection and 20% in the outside parts.
What I'm saying is I find a girl attractive initially or I don't period, non negotiable, if she's not skinny and doesn't have a pretty face on top of that I won't be attracted ever, so I need that attraction, then personality we need to get along, be able to talk and have trust, I don't care if we may otherwise be different as most good couples are, so I'll give some leeway to that
I know I didn't put the precents how you wanted but you get my point.