My boyfriend would never cheat but he likes another girl?

so I've been dating this boy since I was 14 and he was 15. 3 years. And he's the first real love of my life, I can't even imagine a future without him in it. But he's polyamorous and while he still loves me, recently he got a huge crush on his coworker. What do I do? I want him to be happy. We've talked about it a lot. I just want him to be happy but at the same time I want to feel like I'm his special girl, I don't want him to have a side chick. What do I do? Have any of you ever had experience with a polyamorous partner?
He's NOT a cheater and would never do anything I wouldn't know about.


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What Guys Said 1

  • I still don't think it's fair for you to be dating someone that has a crush on someone else..


What Girls Said 1

  • tell him how you feel... yeah, you want him to be happy but you should, and he should want you to, be happy too