I'm not trying to complain or rant like the bitter misogynists on here, but I have to say that I am feeling very frustrated at how picky so many girls seem to be today. For example, I consider myself a 5 or 6 on a scale of 1-10, making me a solid average to high average at best, and I try to pursue girls who are in the same league as me. Yet, the vast majority of 5-6 girls won't even give me the time of day as they only want super hot 8-9 guys. I've even tried 4/10 girls who I was clearly more attractive then, and they are still really picky only wanting 8s and 9s.
Furthermore, I find the personality of a lot of these average girls to be off putting. They seem to think that they are precious and an absolute treasure that is entitled to an amazing guy, yet the vast majority of them on my campus are--no offense to anyone--the butch hipster/LGBT types who are often overweight. I'm not saying that I'm amazing, but these girls aren't exactly the pinnacle of feminine beauty either. Finding a girl who is pretty by traditional feminine standards--even a basic White girl--is so damn difficult as everyone in NorCal is either the LGBT hipster type or an Asian (who I'm not very attracted to, no offense).
Frankly, the great irony here is that I've discovered that the amazingly attractive, smoking hot 8, 9, and 10 girls are actually more approachable and open to the possibility of dating an average guy than the average girls are. The only problem is that most of them aren't single and I tend to lack the confidence to approach them.
Most Helpful Girl
I don't doubt there are some that are overly picky. I can only speak for myself.
I have always been a go with the flow type of person, so if the guy is good company, I'd consider dating him. I've dated different shapes and sizes, so I don't go for height or purely on looks. I haven't been to NorCal yet, only SoCal, so I don't know what it's like up there. You can always take a break, or maybe try expanding your search? But then you'd been in a more long distance type of relationship, and I'm not sure how that will work out.0
Most Helpful Guy
Well Bro you are correct, girls these days think they're worth more than they actually are worth , i just avoid them and ignore them and eventually they realise i dont really care so they become much nicer and more approachable and in fact they kinda have an interest in me sometimes as well , and yes the beautfiul girls are nicer and more approachable but sadly they are taken.2