I am a female,23 and im still a virgin. I used to super religious because i used to hang out with my crazy sister and my mother has a tendency to push people away so growing up around that, i was brainwashed into thinking people are mean and you shouldn't trust anyone. Now im 23 and i m naturally really social and i love talking and hanging out with people and positive but im socially behind and as a result of that i keep pushing people away, how can i stop this? and will people laugh at me if i tell them i am still a virgin? Like when they ask why i always shut down.. what am i supposed to say... i didn't grew up to be social?
Most Helpful Guy
It's perfectly normal, there are tons of people out there who are virgins at your age still too. I was really socially awkward in high school, but I read a book called "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie and it really helped me get so much better at social interactions, so I'd recommend you read that.
A lot of people are pressured to lose their virginity as soon as possible, so that's why it's increasingly rare to find someone who's a virgin and over 20 years old. But there really is nothing wrong with it. If they ask why, just say you haven't found anyone you want to lose it to. Or that you were raised religious, and was taught not to lose it until after marriage but your views have changed over time. Hopefully this helped.0
Most Helpful Girl
Nothing wrong with it! I'm 22 & a virgin & I'm saving myself for my wedding day!0