I try to tell myself im good enough a I am, im not a bad or a boring person, but i feel like my life doesn't reflect that at all.
I feel like i should have had more friends, more guys would be interested in dating me etc.
So it feels like im lying to myself rather being realistic or just boosting my own confidence.
Im veru active and i eat healthy so i feel like i have reached my bet potential looks wise. Im not interested in using makeup, so thats not something im going to anyway. I look what i look like and if guys dont like that, then i dont have any interest in dating them.
Anyway, i dont know what to do or belive..
Most Helpful Guy
That's a pretty sour flavor to have. But, don't place your value over dating. Don't just do stuff because you think it will increase your chances in dating just live the way you want to live. That's besides, the age group that you're in isn't the most pleasant anyways so trust me, you're not missing out on much.0
Most Helpful Girl
Telling yourself what a failure you are won’t make you any more successful. Telling yourself you’re not living up to your full potential won’t help you reach a higher potential. Telling yourself you’re worthless and unlovable won’t make you feel any more worthy or lovable.
I know it sounds almost annoyingly simple, but the only way to achieve self love is to love yourself regardless of who you are and where you stand and even if you know you want to change.
You are enough just as you are. And self love will be a little bit easier every time you remind yourself of that.