He's definitely interested in a relationship and so am I. Just not sure if I should do something so soon. If he sends me flowers and I don't even send a card I'll feel horrible! But if he doesn't and I do, that would be a little awkward.
Plus I'm not sure if I should ask for his address or just look him up online. It's been a long time since I dated anyone so I need help!
Update: so after telling myself to stop thinking like an insecure teenager, I just asked him. It's a long-distance relationship so exchanging cards is actually the closest we're going to get to a personal interaction right now, besides talking on the phone. Me: "I have a question. Would you think me too forward if I asked for your address?" Him: "Not at all." (gives address and asks for mine) Done. Being a grown-up is great.
Well in case he doesn't send you flowers... I think sticking to funny card is a smart choice. He'll know where you stand and in turn keep things uncomplicated.
I think asking him his address is better, 'cause if someone sent me flowers at my address would be romantic but at the same time a little creepy. You don't want creepy. And once you get his address and (hopefully) he sends you flowers too, later on you can send him surprise gifts.
Hope this helps :)
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