He stays in regular contact with you. You do not wonder why he isn't texting, for example. And by regular contact I don't necessarily mean everyday, but throughout the week. He treats you like a close friend, as anyone has more of a commitment to their close friends. An exception to this is it the guy is just needy/subject to infatuation. Even a reasonable person might initially go unreasonably out of their way to be with you the more they like you. For example a guy that is dead tired & needs rest delaying that to hang out with you might be a sign he is interested in a serious relationship. Or a guy who only has a short, inconvenient amount of time to see you and does anyway.
If it seems like when he isn't with you one of the things on his mind is you & being with you, it is a sign that he is interested in committing to something serious. Maybe this is just me though.
⚫How reliable he is ⚫If he wants to get to know me personally. does he want to know who I am as a person ⚫When he talks about his future , I also feature in it ⚫He is open about his feelings and his life, because he wants me to get to know him too ⚫The relationship should progress as feelings develop ⚫Plus, he lets me know where I stand with him ⚫He wants to see me regularly and keeps in regular contact. ⚫Considers my feelings ⚫ No matter how busy he is he'll make an effort to see me or contact me
For one thing, he won't try to initiate having sex with the girl too soon. He doesn't want to give the impression that sex is all he wants. That doesn't mean that he won't lean in to kiss the girl at the end of their first date, but he won't be pushing to sleep together too soon.
Aa guy wants to go out with you. Every little thing matter to him like being around you. Most important he want to know about who you are, your birthday, things you like, and your favorite color so he can surprise you for special occasion. Those are the signs of a guy liking who want to be with you.
1. I'd say to each his own 2. Language, terms and signs of expression vary from person to person 3. When I'm serious about someone then I'll probably be joking around and teasing her a lot that is most times misunderstood to be not taking her seriously lol 4. It's all about your gut feel and ways of judging right from wrong kind of stuff :)
personally I think its many things, if he wants to take things slow its a good sign, getting to really know someone before you jump in is a sign of wanting something long term in my opinion along with what everyone else has said about listening etc etc are all good signs I also think if you can pick up that he has good boundaries and is confident in what he can bring to something serious (without being arrogant) then you are into something good =).
The way he looks at her the way he makes her feel the compliments and constant love when he cuddles her, and does things first when he asks to meet your family/you meet his family he asks you if you are comfortable before doing anything he asks you, "can i?" if he is reaching down, or up or anytime he doesn't want you just for SEX he is there in the good and the bad he cares for you and he constantly checks up on you and if you are in school he will skip, leave, or doing anything he can to go in your class and be there, FOR YOU! even of he already had that class, XD
Age 19 neither one of you are ready to be married. So serious to me means you want to stay together, be monogamous, and eventually consider a marriage.
How old is your guy? Men under about 25 are not ready to be married. You can likely find one to be steady, but mentally they are just not ready.
An older guy may well be looking for a mate - someone to spend their life with. They generally have enough maturity to be able to discern what they realy like and whether they're wanting something permanent. THEY WILL LET YOU KNOW.
When you have discussions about how you two feel and what your future is, what is he saying? Is he interested in that or not? How does he feel about family?
There are two types of guys - the alphas and the betas. The alphas are fun and exciting and know how to make your juices flow, the betas will worship you. Don't ride the cock carousel then expect you'll find a 'nice guy' to settle down with. They're not gonna want you after that. Sad but true.
-kisses you on the cheek when he really should be giving you a kiss on the lips, props to the poor bastard. -obviously talks to you each day -you begin to get intimate about each others lives -you both enjoy each others company -he wants to move further into a relationship, this part is hard i imagine because you are standoffish in terms of kissing. its your rodeo, you do it.
Hi loves listen, There are certain things which are common in behaviour if a boy is serious with a girl:- He will find situation where he can make her happy He will try to protect her. He will be jealous if that girl talks about other guy. He will try to be nice to the person which are dear to the girl. He will do homework for her :p :D a lot other.
Mentioning you or introducing you to his family and friends is one of the best indicators that he wants to be exclusive with you. When a guy is not serious about someone, he will not take the time to integrate them into his world.
When he introduces you to his friends and family, make sure you pay attention to the way he introduces you to them. Nothing better clarifies whether or not he wants something serious than him telling them about you, and what you mean to him.
If he looks at you with loving eyes. Caring about what happens to u , Not forcing u to have sex with him , listens to u when u two have an arguments , tells u he loves u often , hugs u outside , holds ur hand , tells his friends that u r his girlfriend , annddd The Big proof that he wants smth serious is when he asks u to meet one of his family members Or better HIS PARENTS lol
Some signs are - he isn't dating other girls while he is seeing you - he lets you meet his family. - he checks with you before making his own plans. - he asks about your past - he pays attention to small things about you Of course of these are sure-fire signs, but they mean more than him saying "I want something serious"
Well, first of all there's a difference between the guy really being into you and enjoying your company and him wanting something serious at all. I guess guys care more about the moment. If everything is calm, nice and comfortable, it's good for them, they won't push to much for it to become something serious. If they see some/feel sort of competition, they might feel inspired to try harder and keep the girl, perhaps with a commitment. The sings are all what people have said before.
He pays attention to every single detail of her personality. He remembers the things she told him. He doesn't compliment her only in a superficial way, but he shows her that he appreciates her character as well.