Or Tinder is only useful for attractive males? I have only gotten three matches that are legit profiles after starting to use it for a little more than a month. None of my matches messaged me back. Most of the others are certainly bots and a couple of prostitutes.
The friend who was raving to me about Tinder told me to just swipe right on every profile until I run of likes for the day to see what I can get. He said if I set my photos and write my bio in the right way, I should get at least one match per day. I don't really want to do that because I don't want to end up leading anyone on by not messaging them or cut ties with them out of the blue. I know there are women out there who actually take Tinder more seriously than they should.
I am nowhere near being the most attractive guy in the world. I don't want to take Tinder too seriously, but it would be nice to get just a few matches consistently. Hopefully that will boost up my confidence in real life with women.
I am not looking to hook up because I do not want my first kiss to be with someone I am hooking up with...
I found my boyfriend on Tinder. However I was on Tinder for a good 6 months before finding him on there. It really requires patience. Tinder can be cruel. But you never know when that one person will show up on there and be your soul mate :)
Only EXTREMELY good looking men score matches and dates on Tinder.
I'm not at all interested in hookups, but a year aho2, I tried Tinder just out of curiosity (had no plans of following up with my matches). I did what your friends told you. Swipe right on EVERY female profile. Did that for a friggin' whole month, and ZERO matches!
Now, I may not be the best looking man around, but I'm certainly not the worst looking either. So yeah, in case of men, Tinder only works for those who look as good as a Brad Pitt or a Tom Cruise.
I thought tinder was for hookups. Maybe message something different
My advice? Try Hinge. It promotes itself as the "Tinder for relationships" and the guys I've met on there have been SO much better than Tinder. Tinder is *usually* for hook ups; not always, but I would try somewhere else.
I haven't tried Tinder yet, only because I've heard it's more of a hook up site. Anyway I'm not sure if that will boost your confidence irl. For me it was just coming out of my shell and approaching women years ago. Lots of rejection but also lots of reward.
I don't know, I've started using tinder recently, and I am now dating a girl that I met there. I also have 2 other girls that I used talk to and could meet if it wasn't for my interest for the girl I am currently seeing. They are all super pretty too! So tinder has been great, however! I've been getting a whole lot more likes back if I superliked And I use the 1 super like I get daily wisely! hahaha