Not going to lie, back then If I find them very attractive or beautiful, I'll test the waters. Married or not. Sometimes, I'll find out that most of them are in a rocky (their man ain't treating them like they should be) or abusive relationship. Back then, I don't give a shit what the guy has to say to me or do to me. I still don't give a shit... although, I phased out from this since I'm already in a steady relationship. How would I feel if they tried snatching my woman? Please, by all means try... I am confident she won't leave my ass. I guarantee it. Would I do it again if I was single? Probably.
Treat your woman wrong, I'll swoop in for the kill. Your lost, not mine. They deserve to be happy not miserable.
There are other times when women reject me too because I'm not their type or they love their man.
So for the guys in that treats their woman like pieces of shit, careful because your woman will leave to be with "that guy" that provides her the attention and love that she longed for from you. I know I'll be hated for saying this, but I really don't give a shit. It's the truth. Your woman will fall, if you fail her.
absolutely not. regardless of how much i may like someone. i'm not going to be the cheatee and frankyl do not want to be with someone who would cheat or allwo themselves to be pursued while in a relationship
No. That would be dishonorable. Even if it seems like you're stuck in a pond, being a lonely and moral fish is better than being a scummy fish with either two new enemies or one new enemy and a relationship built by working against someone else's wholesome relationship.
No I wouldn't. Even if I was crushing and he showed interest I wouldn't. I might not know his girlfriend/wife but I care if I'm made into the other woman. I wouldn't like myself very much either. I've been cheated on, and our relationship wasn't bad it was only within the first year. His "friend" Fucked him then told me. She pursued him. Even though im glad I found that out so I wouldn't be blinded I still hated her for not caring that he was in a relationship with someone. I think most people wouldn't hit on a taken person. But I believe a lot would give in to being pursued by a taken person.
I did, but the situation was really complicated. When I first met him, I saw him as a friend. He pursued me and I tried so hard to resist it, but I was really vulnerable at the time and finally gave in. I became head over heels for him, but it wasn't like he tried to stop being with me either. It was definitely a two way street between us. There is so much more to the story. Like I said, it's truly a complicated one. I would never intentionally go after someone. Like, I didn't plan at all for anything to happen between me and this guy. I'm not proud of it, but I don't feel guilty nor do I feel shame. Sure, it wasn't a good thing to do morally, but I wasn't the one cheating, he was. He continuously pursued me too even when I tried to get over him and distanced myself from him.
Nope. I don't even pursue someone if they only like someone else.
The way I see it is that if someone is going to cheat, they are going to do it regardless of who it is with. Have I been that person who pursued someone who was in a relationship? Yes I have. Did I feel guilty about it? No I didn't. Obviously they were not happy/secure enough in their relationship to begin with, otherwise they wouldn't have let themselves get caught up with someone else.
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