Two months ago I went on a date with this guy from Tinder... We had texted approximately two weeks before meeting up, and we would text/snapchat every day several times a day. He also had cute personal nicknames for me. So the date went fine, and he ended up sleeping over at my place and watched a movie before going to sleep (we did NOT have sex) - we cuddled, kissed, and he did feel me up a bit under my shirt while cuddling. Then he left the next morning. During our date he also told me that he was moving away because of college and therefore not looking for anything serious (unless I would visit him every weekend). After our date he stopped texting as frequently as before, and I asked him what was up, and he kept saying that he was busy, and that his mind was somewhere else, since he had to find a place to stay etc. He also stopped calling me those nicknames (although he has started to call me "little" as in "little one", which he never did before). He also admitted to me that he was so tempted to sleep with me while he stayed over, but he got performance anxiety (because I'm a virgin. I wouldn't mind losing it to him though). We still text each other almost every day now, but it's definitely not the same as it was before. We haven't been on a date since, because he moved away, but he told me that he was kind of expecting me to come and visit him. He likes and comments (compliments) my pictures on Instagram and even the older ones - I called him out on it saying that he was stalking me, and he just replied with a "So what?".
Even though we haven't seen each other since our first date, we still text each other (after two months).
Does he like me or not? Does he only want sex? I'm afraid I'm a bit too naive.
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From experience not every guy on tinder wants just sex.
On my opinion I wouldn't have invited him to my house on the first date. You don't know him from Adam, you're putting yourself in danger and a lot of men assume sex is in the cards if they are invited over. What's done is done now, I would say he doesn't really sound interested anymore. So you should move on.0