Where have all the good men gone? Seriously. Where are you, Romeo? It is ridiculously frustrating being a woman in this day and age for a multitude of reasons but I'll spare you the nitty gritty. First, let me give you a little background on me. Twenty, short, not fat, large hips, big green eyes, and certainly not ugly and ya know what, I never have gone on a date in my entire life. I've never even been asked on a date and the most frustrating thing in the world is the constant questions from friends and family.
"You're so pretty, why are you single?"
I don't fucking know, why don't you tell me? I'm in college, I see men all the time, I smile at them but nothing ever happens. I always wonder what I'm doing wrong, but I know that I'm not the only one wondering. Why are women increasingly remaining single longer, and some choosing not to get married at all. Should I just swallow my pride and go after the men?
Men, why are you being such pussies and not going for the women, what is going on with this world?
Most Helpful Guy
(Where are all the good guys?)
Well it kinda depends on what yiu consider "good" but Id guess a good portion of them are taken.
Most guys who have the traits women go crazy for (height, muscles, social skills, charisma, and that IDAF attutude) take advantage of their desirability by fucking as many girls as possible.
There are guys who have these traits who do want a relationship but they probably aren't on the market for long and generally have high standards.
(Men, why are you being such pussies and not going for the women, what is going on with this world?)
My personal answer is that Im shy and dont think its worth it. I dont feel motivated to ask a girl out and put in the effort to be her Romeo when she's most likely sent nudes to strangers and spread her legs on the first date for guys at parties or guys on tinder. I dont feel like chasing girls who jump right into the net for other guys.
I've accepted Im not the tall fun confident drunk party boy kinda guy that women want to sleep with on the first date. Im the safe option theyll want after they've grown board of throwing themselves at the players and failing to get them to commit. Even though I've accepted this I'd rather stay single than swallow my pride and chase a girl who sees me as the safe option. Fuck that.
oh and before I get that lame "Not all girls are like that!" response. Most of you are like that, you just lie about it after the fact.
there's no way to tell the difference between the few who aren't like that and the majority who are. Id rather assume the worst in every girl I see rather than be foolishly optimistic and allow myself to be lied to, fucked over, and let down.3
Most Helpful Girl
IF guys aren't approaching you maybe you're a little shy? Have you gone out to parties? That's where you meet a lot of guys and get to let loose. Do something that is out of your comfort zone. Join a dating website and make it known that you aren't on there for fun but for a relationship. I was having the same problem, I joined tinder and met a really great guy that isn't just in it for sex. My family and friends didn't and till don't believe that i have boyfriend because they've been haggling me so long. So i know it's really quite irritating. Help yourself out.0