I've been texting a guy for about 9 months. We started out as just friends. But somewhere along the way we've developed feelings. We work together and our schedules never match up for us to spend time together outside of work. Also we haven't made it public knowledge that we talk. One of my friends asked if the guy and I have even kissed yet and when I said no she said we are moving too slow. He and I aren't in any rush. We enjoy the talking and flirting. We are still trying to figure out what we want. He and I were both wild when we were younger. Now we are much older and settled. So are we moving too slow. Should we just say screw it and get it over with or keep enjoying the ride till we get there?
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If you're both comfortable where you're at and have a mutual understanding then I don't understand why you would have to change anything. It's your relationship, not your friends, so don't let her influence it. If you're both happy with the relationship then there's no reason to "speed things up". Of course if you do want more than there's nothing wrong with trying for it. You can go around work schedules if you really put in enough effort. Overall you should just be doing what makes you happy. Screw what everyone else thinks.0