I have never had any issues with bigger girls and have dated several bigger girls, in fact my wife is a bigger girl and I love her dearly, her weight has never really been an issue with me, and the only time it is going to be an issue is if it becomes a health concern, in the sense that it is causing problems, and then my concern will be not that she is fat, just how can we control it so her health is restored. If she could stay healthy despite her weight, then I will have no worries, her weight has no impact on how I feel about her, or my feelings of attractiveness towards her.
i hang out with a decent amount of girls, some consider it dating, i dont really label it. I love chubby girls they absolutely tend to be more fun and exciting people to hang out with. Im confident with myself and dont care what people think so the stigma with dating a fat girl doesn't matter to me. I tend to break it off with them cuz i just dont think i could spend the rest of my life with someone who is going to continue getting fatter and fatter. I need to see a drive to be healthy or production in the opposite direction.
Guys standards of fat are all different. I will still date what i consider fat, but that may be considered curvy to most guys. And I don't know im weird i consider curvy as fat. its just a word in the end and has no meaning in the relationship
I've dated a chubby girl (but she was blonde, very pretty face and popular at my school ) and another who was also blonde but had a perfect face. It's not that bad, if she's decent then it can be a normal relationship... the second one though was fairly overweight though so I didn't want her to meet my family (we did have a lot of sex though)