So I've been wanting a boyfriend for the past two weeks and not because I'm lusty or anything I just have really been off the radar for a long time and I'm starting to think that guys just always think I'm taken or I'm just not attractive in any way. I want to be attractive for men but I don't know how to achieve that :/ I dress with the trend and people alwayes comment on my cute clothes. I'm not chubby at all but not SUPER skinny either. Do I need to maybe change my mental outlook? I'm known for being shy but I'm honestly a very friendly person, like I couldn't hurt a fly and my friends always describe me as "innocent". Is there something off putting to guys about girls who are shy and innocent?
Most Helpful Guy
Shy and innocent isn't necessarily a bad thing but most guys like a girl who maybe is a little promiscuous, fun and not boring, and at your age they probably all want sex. So try to be a little bit more sexy perhaps. It doesn't need to be in a slutty way but something cute or girly will do. Show off your assets. If you have great legs then wear a skirt or tight jeans. Something which shows guys you are proud of your body and are attractive.
But I think the more important thing here is that you need to get on the radar and not be so stealthy. Get guys to notice you because as soon as one guy notices and makes a comment then the other guys start to notice as well. So if it's a great ass or 'wow look at her hair'. Whatever it is that a guy can make a comment about how good you look then that will make a lot of difference. It could even be as simple as starting a conversation with a guy and suddenly you are on the radar. Just try something a little different to show guys that you are there and your friendly and approachable.2
Most Helpful Girl
I'm not goona give any advice, since I do not attract any guys in real life1