Try not to be biased. I'm asking in general not about your specific relationship
- At that age Guys are usually more invested in the relationshipVote A
- At that age Girls are usually more invested in the relationshipVote B
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i can only guess from my own high school relationships and relationships I've seen at a high school level. i have no other means of reference. what other reference could there be except your own experiences? if you have some tangible stats then i can take that into account as well. but without them i can only base it on my experiences.
at the level of puppy love both love pretty equally in my opinion. but. i think girls get over relationships much more quickly leaving me to question whether or not they really were that invested in the relationship. speaking from both my own and the ones I've seen. a lot of teenage boys would die for their girlfriends. i would have. how many teenage girls would die for their boyfriends? less than the boys in my opinion. but even then the whole romeo and Juliet thing. they both couldnt live without the other. well. i think men love more deeply in general. but at the high school stage i think its pretty equal. really its a hard thing to generalize because there isn't any other reference than personal experience/what youve seen.
if i were more cynical i would say that its all superficial. that girls seek a boy capable of provision and protection and boys just look to get their dick wet. thats basically what love is in most cases. not consciously. people think theyre in love. but they're really just looking for a means to survive and reproduce. that so-called love is easily broken. but. if we were going to try to define it. i would define it by sacrifice. how invested someone is in a relationship is measured by how much they sacrifice for the other person. thats how i see it.2
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